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This video I'm going to share with you 3 ways of dealing with narcissists or sociopaths without giving them your power. Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now on this video, I'm going to be sharing with you the three ways you can deal with narcissist or sociopath's so that you don't give away your power and understanding the best way to move about this process.
Now, if you're somebody that knows somebody, that is what is called a narcissist or a sociopath, first off, understand what really makes it easier is understanding that it's a belief they have about who they are that perpetuates that behavior, that way of being. So knowing that doesn't make it necessarily right, but it does make it easier to understand that when people are that way, there's a certain way they're wired.
It's almost like, then you can understand them a little bit more, at least. Now, for those of you that don't know, I had an abusive ex step mom and my life between the ages of seven to 15 years old and uh, she's definitely someone that falls into the categories of narcissists and sociopaths. There were many different situations where my brother and I, um, I get punished for things that we didn't do.
You know, we weren't allowed to watch TV. We weren't allowed to have friends, a way to earn, go into school activities. Majority of the time if we wanted to go to band camp or something like that, that was actually required by school, we'd get that taken away if we got into trouble because there came a point to where nothing else could be taken away.
A lot of times we were locked outside and made to do yard work for maybe like eight to 12 hours a day while she'd be at work. My dad was a firefighter, so he was gone 24 hours a day back, 24 hours a day and he kinda let her just like run the show. And, um, if, you know, besides being nacho was also physically abusive and um, it was almost like as well we would, we would have to admit to doing things we didn't do.
There was a lot of manipulation there and a lot of tearing down a lot of, um, you know, making us feel like we weren't worthy and uh, or good enough. And even after my dad divorced her when I was 15 years old, I still felt that unworthiness and it took me years to really unravel that and understand that and understand actually that was a huge gift for me because that pressure led to my spiritual awakening dealing with, uh, dealing with someone like that.
However, there's a couple of things that I learned while working with her and you know, it got to a point to where I had to learn how, you know, if I wanted to go to, let's say, a band camp competition, what I would have to do is I would have to pretend like I didn't really want to go in order for me to be out with, to actually go.
If she knew at all that I wanted to go, she would then tell me, Oh, you didn't do something right. So if I would have to pretend like I didn't want to go so that I could actually then, uh, go and if she found out I did want to, what she would do is she would say, um, Oh, you didn't do this correctly and you don't, you don't get to go. But if I was like, you know, I really don't want to go to that band tournament, but I guess I, I guess, uh, you know, maybe there's a way I can get out of it.
She's like, no, you're going like, that's something you're going to. So it was a very interesting thing because I had to kind of learn how to work through that just to be able to go to school. You know, my brother and I also weren't given food.
We were given a TV dinner at night and a bowl of cereal in the morning. So we were like 120 I was 110 120 pounds as like a sophomore in high school. Because of that. And then when my dad divorced, when I was 15, all of a sudden my brother and I, we were able to start, uh, you know, gaining weight again. A lot of times we'd have to break into one side of the house just to get a little bit more food so that we were able to eat because of the house we lived in, had like a separate section where my....
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